Friday, November 25, 2011

Is it good that teenagers under 18 years of age are having sex?

Many teenagers do it and admit it and many do it but don't admit it because they're afraid that their reputation will be spoiled but it doesn't change the fact that many, if not, most underage teenagers are having sex these days. No one seems to worry about it as if it's something very normal and has no negative effects. What do you think about this?Is it good that teenagers under 18 years of age are having sex?
noooooooooooooooooooo. its very bad. they need to wait till they r marriedIs it good that teenagers under 18 years of age are having sex?
I don't see a problem with under 18. I do with under 16. Especially with every 13 year old girl dressing like a slut now a days. I lost my virginity at 13 years old. I don't regret it because it helped me lead to where I am now, though I do frown upon it for the younger generation.
I dont know if it does.


I know it must be normal for them to be at it, as the question is about stopping them not starting them.





That and it would be surprising if they failed to get sexual urges and feelings as their bodies began to create hormones and prepare themselves to be sexually active and creative. This hand in hand development is also known as puberty, no?





As for the possible negative effects I wonder what they are as compared to a road perhaps, both have the potential to kill aa person, both require that a person leaves their home and makes a certain amount of contact with other people. In fact anything we do as we live as humans has potential for negative to extreme negative consequences or results. The issue often falls down to that as such young people how can they have the experience to know how to handle things, well how else are they to gain experience of the world with out, erm,actively participating?





Try having some faith in your young people that they are learning and one way or the other will do well.





As for the matter that it is normal, well history should provide you with all the evidence that you need ... people do have a sexual aspect, and its been that way for centuries, they also develop a greater tendency to explore the more adult world around them when entering their 'teens', this too has been the same for a long time.





Look at all sides, not just the ones that appeal to you.
kids will always be curious about their bodies - fact of life... and some parents hope that telling them nothing means they won't do anything - until someone is pregnant or suffering with an STD!!! ;)





as long as they are protected, and they are aware of the consequences, then i see no problem...





and any problems experienced are on their heads and have to live with it... :D
I think that saying that no one worries about it is wrong. Of course we worry about it. I personally think that they should wait until they are 18 or older just because they don't yet know who they are yet %26amp; the chances are high that the boyfriend/girlfriend they have now is not really someone they want to lose it to.





However, despite how I feel it is not up to me. It is not my body they are using to have sex. Many of them will have sex regardless of how well they have been taught or how well they have been raised. In the end all we can do is just make sure that we instill values in our children, grandchildren, %26amp; nephews/nieces. We need to teach them that they need to use protection %26amp; that they need to choose their partners wisely, especially for their first time. Basically, we need to teach them to respect themselves enough that they won't give it up to the player (male or female) that cons them into their first time.
the problem is global, at 18 most are havig sex.Best they have a sexual education first. Best the teens be aware, than trying to prevent,something we cannot control.
Good for you for having an open communication with your kids. Keep it up.


Sex and relationships are usually difficult for adults and teens. You just have to keep supporting them.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

Oh gosh u had sex at 13 u should be ashamed of yourself!! THATS DISGUSTING at 13 yr still a kid and have just barely reached teenage-hood. Urgh its u wh*res that make other teens look bad! Can't u wait until yr 18 AT LEAST or even better in yr 20s!! OR MARRIED idk

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